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Here we see the injunctions which have
come directly from Father or the primary authority figure in childhood,
which fulfill the "set up" of the Planetary theme of NS. The process
required, is to transition from the deficit position regarding
the beliefs, to a healthy ability to be a responsible & successful
being in the world as the "right to exist", with ease, with joy,
and with fun!
The deficit beliefs are formed through the Father's original actions
regarding responsibility, and as Saturn operates through either
under or over compensation, the Father will have been either:
- Overly responsible, thereby depriving
the child of the opportunity to learn how to take care of
themselves in the world. This in turn leads to a lack of strength
& endurance, and an ongoing reliance on Father or some other
responsible person. OR
- He would have been not responsible
at all, causing difficulty and hardship in the family system,
through his lack of physically and/or emotionally caring for
the family. This then leads to the child's belief about lack
of support, so "I have to do it all myself" because "there's
no-one there for me", or, "it's always going to be hard" so
I must struggle etc. The positive result from this experience
is a tremendous strength and endurance ability which is born
through the struggle of the early years.
When counselling my clients who carry this
theme (or any theme for that matter), I always suggest that they
don't have to throw out the proverbial baby with the bath water.
In other words there are always positive results from the original
deficit beliefs, which need to be maintained, at the same time
as re-permissioning the limiting beliefs into new and positive
ones. So for example here, we would encourage the client to cherish
their strength and fortitude and recognise how very useful this
is, as the NS people are the builders of the world, who create
lasting and meaningful structures as a result of their efforts.
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We can then encourage them to
release the belief that they are unsupported, and that it is safe
to allow others to be there for them, without having to be responsible
for everybody else (so they can get their sense of recognition,
and above all get loved). This in turn allows them to release their
deeply repressed anger and frustration at all they have to do to
"get loved",
and to become more gentle and loving in turn.
Whether the Father played out the under or
over compensated role (which would have been expressed through the
signs and houses of Sun and Saturn), in the early scene, the early
family life would have been over bounded, with many rules and regulations
to be maintained, as the system is tightly "clenched"
so that order can be maintained. He would have been cold and/or
aloof in his bearing, and conveyed a quality of seriousness as his
maintenance behavior. The NS type sets up this early experience
where there is a very autocratic and authoritarian setup, to limit
their own perception of themselves as being able to create their
own inner authority figure. Their anima ( or feminine) function
is very limited, and the compensation for this is often the very
autocratic father, who is subsequently replaced by bosses, and other
authority figures in adult life. They model themselves on this,
and seek to emulate it, in the belief that this will gain the respect
they would like to believe they deserve, in turn gaining their right
to exist. The image of the Victorian family and Father is very appropriate
here.
So here we have the corporate administrators
and bureaucratic functionary types, who sadly did not have fun and
joy in their early lives, and don't know how to have it in their
adult lives either. The Spirit of the Child is deficit here & needs
to be repermissioned to become free & creative, thus enabling the
client to realise they have the right to joy and camaraderie as
they achieve their goals.
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